Are you a scorned dreamer? Lets restore your AMBITION!

by Bobby Bryant

Lately, I’ve been asked a series of questions in relation to my “ambition, drive, and purpose” in life. Reflecting upon the dialog with these individuals and with many of my friends, students, and mentors it would appear that a lot of people are struggling to ignite their own ambition, drive, and/or identify their purpose in life. These intangibles appear to be for most, a daunting task. Even worst, many simply don’t know where to begin.

The purpose of this blog is to share my inner most thoughts and reasons as to “WHY” I function the way I do, “WHY” I think the way I think, and “WHY” I view the world the way I see it. However, I must forewarn you. This blog is going to be very direct, forward, transparent to some degree, and provoke you to transparently evaluate yourself in this process of restoring your ambition.

Now, what happened? What derailed you? What knocked you off track(s)? What event disrupted your life? Who hurt you? Who robbed your joy? Who stole your happiness? Who broke your spirit? Stop reading this blog right now and go to that moment in your life. Look at it! Reflect on it! Think about it! How does it make you feel? How long ago did it happen? TODAY, how are you dealing with the pain that inflicted itself upon you?

I have to start here with this blog. We have to start with your “WHAT” in order to get to your “WHY” are you a scorned dreamer! I want to help you restore your ambition. With that said, NO MATTER what your answers are to the questions I asked in the previous paragraph it has become your EVERLASTING PERFECT EXCUSE for WHY you are NOT reaching your GOD GIVEN potential. That moment has defined, derailed, and deprogramed you to fail because you are letting that unfortunate moment in your life win. I don’t care what happen!! The world doesn’t care!! And you know what, I can hear you right now “But Bobby, you don’t understand……….”

The reality is, it’s not for me to understand or co-sign on the misery and pain that this event has caused you. GET OVER IT! Again, I don’t care and nor does the world. If you have to, APOLOGIZE TO YOURSELF for the person that inflicted the grief and pain upon you. FORGET CLOSURE!!! I don’t believe in closure. I forgive myself and YOU for hurting me TODAY!! I set myself FREE of that moment, FREE of the pain, FREE of the thought that haunts and hinders my progression!! I will ALWAYS remember what I need to learn from that unfortunate moment, but it won’t define ME and I FORGIVE YOU, I LOVE YOU and even more I LOVE MYSELF! I ask you……………Why are you waiting and wasting YEARS of your precious life waiting for the person that hurt you to give a 10 second apology? For closure?!?!? LET IT GO! The first step to restoring your ambition is to give yourself a clean slate! An airplane can’t soar with too much baggage!! So, why are you holding on to all of yours?

The second step to restoring your ambition. UNCONDITION YOURSELF!!! My sister and I were sheltered by two(2) great parents. Notice, I didn’t say perfect. My sister and I would have extensive dialog at family gatherings about how our parents raised us in Candy Land. A make-believe world! My mom and dad protected my sister and I from the harsh ailments of this world. I grew up in Mobile, Alabama. This is as south as you can get in a Bible Belt State! My mom and dad did everything right to safeguard us from the realities of the world during our formative years. My uneducated mom, with an inexcusable driven demeanor, custom built our minds and developed us into methodical thinkers. My father, a highly ranked military man, had a radiant personality. He had a gift of befriending any and everybody no matter your culture, race, sexuality, etc.. Yet, he was very hard on me. His approach was that of no applause when it came to me. The first time my father said “I LOVE YOU SON!” I was 21 years old. But don’t get me wrong, my father loved me with all of his heart. I understand that, this was his approach for making me strive to reach my infinite potential as I eagerly sought out his concealed approval.

UNCONDITION YOURSELF!! Today, I realize how lucky I was for my middle class upbringing. I believe I was intentionally built, designed, and nurtured to be who I am today. My demeanor, the way I think, my ambition, my drive, is all because I AM UNCONDITIONED.  Nobody defines Bobby Bryant, but Bobby Bryant. I NEVER was given the lesson of being inferior. It was pounded into me each-and-everyday that I was handsome, I’m smart, and I can accomplish ANYTHING!! I was CONDITIONED to believe in the possibilities of my potential and to view the world as my playground.

What are you CONDITONED to believe? What have you been told over and over and over again about YOU? Are you conditioned to believe some of these things: You can’t do that because you are black! You can’t do that because you are a woman! You can’t do that because you are Hispanic? You can’t do that because you had kids too young! You can’t do that because you don’t’ have a degree! You can’t do that because you are a single mother! You can’t do that because you are married now! You can’t do that because you are fat! You can’t do that because you are ugly! You can’t do that because you are gay! YOU CAN’T DO THAT……. The next thing you know, you start believing what you are being told. The good news is, you are reading this blog and you are about to change your life TODAY!! UNCONDITON YOURSELF!!  Start talking and telling yourself positive things and thoughts. Start being around people you like, that like you, and that will support you. UNCONDITON YOURSELF!! Start reading more self-help books. Start healing your mentality TODAY!!! Start firing everybody, including your family members, that are NEGATIVE and NO GOOD for your psyche. UNCONDITON YOURSELF!!

The third step to restoring your ambition. BELIEVE WHAT YOU BELIEVE AND RIDE OR DIE WITH IT! This step conceives your PASSION! What do you unequivocally believe about YOU? What do you unequivocally believe about YOUR world?  What do you unequivocally believe you are good at? What do you do everyday at work for someone else that you could start as a small business yourself? Don’t tell me how you FEEL!! Tell me what you BELIEVE!!

I’m the Owner/Founder of iBuy Realty. I, without a doubt, BELIEVE that my company will become a nationwide franchise. I, without a doubt, BELIEVE that my company is an untapped niche for savvy buyers and sellers that want to save money when it comes to their real estate transaction. I, without a doubt, built my belief by doing my research! My journey is calculated! And, I believe what I believe and am willing to DIE for it!!! I breathe, eat, and sleep my vision. I study it everyday. I read about everyday. I talk about it everyday. I write about it everyday. I AM MY VISION!! If you don’t believe what you are selling and telling, how are you going to get people to buy into you and your idea? BELIEVE WHAT YOU BELIEVE, research it, protect it, and sell it to the world!!

The fourth step to restoring your ambition. This isn’t going to be a
popular topic for some of you. However, I forewarned you that this blog was going to be direct and forward. Here is goes, DON’T BE TOO RELIGIOUS! I’m a very spiritual man. I believe in our GOD! As a kid, I went to church so much, I should be exempt for the rest of my life. But, DON’T BE TOO RELIGIOUS!!  Everything in your life needs to be in moderation, including RELIGION. What exactly do I mean? I’m glad you asked! I’ve seen people so saturated into their RELIGION that they lose a sense of self and become passive with their worldly objectives. I try to understand, are they this involved out of guilt? Are they this involved because of tradition?

Based on what I witnessed in the black community, from which I was raised, we tend to exploit RELIGION and NOT take personal responsibility. In addition, I've seen RELIGION used more to manipulate the behaviors of people instead of being the spiritual LIFE guide it was designed to be.  As a matter fact, I've heard over and over that we should give your problems to GOD! Take your hands off the steering wheel of LIFE because HE is in control. Yes, HE is in control!! However, HE will only help YOU if you are willing to put your hands on the steering wheel and meet him half way. HE gave us this thing called FREE WILL!! You see, that becomes a very serious variable. With that said, you can’t totally and 100% of the time PRAY your way out of situations or always give it to GOD! You have to do your part and take responsibility for your actions. You can’t keep doing devilish stuff and asking GOD every week to forgive you as you constantly repeat your ungodly behaviors. I’m sure you heard the statement “FAITH WITHOUT WORKS IS DEAD!” Secondly, I sure you heard the statement “GIVE A MAN A FISH, YOU FEED HIM FOR A DAY. TEACH A MAN HOW TO FISH, YOU FEED HIM FOR A LIFE TIME!” Yet, at times I believe that RELIGION becomes a crutch and delays progress. GOD has already blessed YOU. However, you have got to shake off all your drama and start walking into what HE has planned for you. GOD put you through what you consider HELL for a reason. You ask, WHY YOU? I say, “WHY NOT YOU!” When you lift your head up, stop playing victim, dust off your pants, and follow HIS direction the clouds over your life will disappear. But, YOU HAVE TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY!!!

Lastly, my fifth step to restoring your ambition. Find a Mentor! Who do you know that is doing what you want to do? Study them! And, figure out how to contribute to them for mentoring you.  Once you identify your passion you have to find someone that can direct you to your goal. I can’t tell you how many people consult a flunky. If you want to make an “A+” in school, who do you study with? Another “A+” student or the Trouble Maker that’s failing the class? EXACTLY!!! Find a Mentor that is proven and become his/her understudy. But, you have to add value to someone that is willing to pour his/her knowledge into you for FREE. Most people don’t understand this dynamic and this is the reason why most people that could be a great resource declines one of being their mentee. In addition to that, these Mentors are seasoned and deal with a lot of people!! They deal with a multitude of different personalities on a daily basis. You have to go through these steps of regaining your AMBITION before approaching a Mentor. They can see through YOU!! They will know YOU are NOT ready for the time you are asking them to spend on YOU for FREE!! Get yourself together, and then find a good Mentor……

I’m hopeful this blog helped you. If it did, please comment and share your thoughts. If it didn’t, also please share your thoughts. Either way, I will leave you with this final word: Life at best is a complicated journey! Each of us, was conceived on purpose. Each day, we all have the same time and to some degree as human beings want the same thing for ourselves and our families. However, LIFE is not fair. Some of us have advantages and some of us have disadvantages. But, there are people that look like each of us and have similar stories that have persevered in spite of the horrific things that have happened to them. Oprah was molested/raped by a family member!! LOOK AT HER SUCCESS…. Abraham Lincoln’s story is one against all odds!! Yet, he is one of the most respected and memorable Presidents in history. LOOK AT HIS SUCCESS…. Martin Luther King knew he was going to be killed!!! But, he believed anyway as he left a wife and kids behind. LOOK AT HIS LEGACY, LOOK AT HIS SUCCESS….

In order to restore our ambition, we have to give ourselves a clean slate. Forgive those that have hurt us. Forgive them TODAY! Forgive ourselves! Remove the people in our lives that are dream killers and that are more of a mental and physical drag on your progress. Start pouring positive information and thoughts into yourself. Learn yourself. Find out what makes you tick. Exploit your own talents. Be BOLD enough to not worry about what people think and say!! It doesn’t matter if you are on top of the world or on your back, people are going to talk about you anyway. Might as well BE ON TOP OF THE WORLD….. The sweetest revenge is to be successful!! You have my permission, to be your authentic successful self……

 

In Real Estate, HOPE is not a STRATEGY!

by Bobby Bryant

Are you a Realtor? Do you want to be successful? Are you struggling to produce? Well, being a successful Realtor is a tough sport and HOPE is not a strategy! I’m amazed at the number of Realtors that enter into this business thinking it’s easy. Well, let me be the first to tell you: It is tough being a successful and consistently producing Realtor. I’m going to share three(3) solid tips about how to turn your HOPE into HAVING a pipeline!

TIP #1

FIX YOUR MINDSET!  The biggest mistake a new or existing Realtor can make is NOT shaking the “Employee” mindset. You must get rid of it TODAY!! You are self-employed. It’s like going to college, there is no momma or daddy around to tell you to go to class, study, and not party. You are self-employed!! Your Broker can’t make you go to meetings or do anything. Just like in college, you have to want to be a good student. In real estate, you have to want to be a good student, of the game!

A Realtor can go to all the trainings, seminars, and office meetings that are available. A Realtor can read all the best books, watch the best videos, and attend the industries best webinars. However, until he or she has adopted the right mindset all of these actions are just a waste of money and time. FIX YOUR MINDSET!!

TIP #2

CHOOSE A MARKET! A generalist will NEVER make it in this business moving forward. You have to choose a market TODAY!! I’m entertained when I meet a Realtor in Houston and I ask where they market to get business. Most of the time, they just say “Houston!” They say this meaning they work all over Houston.

The TOP PRODUCERS in Houston ALL have specific areas that they market and demonstrate to the general public that they are the industry experts. They are always present in their market(s). They are sending direct mail, member of HOA’s, affiliated with the local Chamber of Commerce, etc.. It cost too much to be a generalist in this business. By choosing a market, you can consolidate and saturate a market and easily become an identifiable figure. Choose a market TODAY and dominate it!!

TIP #3

GET IN THE KNOW! Who knows you? What organizations are you affiliated with?  Do you blog? Are you properly using Social Media? Are you using video? Are you giving out business cards? Are you asking for business cards? Are you building your database? If you plan to consistently produce in this business, what are you doing?

You have to get in the know!! Again, this is not an easy business. Let the general public know who you are, what you do, and how well you do it!! Yes, speak up!! A closed mouth does not get fed. In this game, it’s not about how many people YOU know like in the old days. Today, it’s about how many people know YOU!

I tell my Realtors to join at least three(3) organizations and create your own audience. This is a must!! If not, who are you going to sell to? Whose houses are you going to list? GET IN THE KNOW!! Join organizations that are in line with your beliefs/values and the things you enjoy. Get involved!! GET IN THE KNOW!!

In conclusion, there are several other tips that can jump start your business. However, everything starts and ends with YOU. You can jump from one Broker to the next and it wouldn’t matter. It all starts and ends with YOU!! The best training in the world won’t help you if you don’t take personal responsibility for your own success. HOPE is not a strategy!! However, being a student of this game and having a burning desire to succeed are the raw ingredients to creating a successful Realtor!

Definition of Excuses: Tools of incompetence created by none achievers to create worthless monuments of nothingness!

Homebuyers, how to get up to 75% of our(iBuy Realty) commission to lower your closing cost?

by Bobby Bryant

Are you in the market to buy a new home in the next 12 months? Have you selected a Realtor? If not, I have some great news for you! iBuy Realty, a NEW real estate brokerage firm in Houston, Texas gives our buyers up to 75% of our commission to lower your closing cost. No Tricks, No Gimmicks, just real SAVINGS!!

People often ask: What’s the catch? Why would you give away your commission? Or, what services are you eliminating? My answer, iBuy Realty was designed with today’s homebuyer in mind. Our Mission Statement: To Revitalize Homeownership in America by making the purchase of a home more rewarding and the selling of a house more economical. With that said, there is NO catch! We have figured out how to leverage technology, studied the shift in consumer habits, and have designed a company that meets consumers at their individual point of need.

Our company has four(4) different Buyer Packages. These packages were designed based on and backed by statistical data. It doesn’t matter if you are super savvy to a more traditional buyer, we have a Buyer Package to accommodate your needs depending on your experience and the support needed to successfully close your transaction.

If you want 75% of the commission due to the Realtor, these are the rules that govern that Buyer Package:

iBuy Control
This Buyer Package is for the buyer that has already found their new home and just needs a Realtor to provide them access to the property and assist with contract preparation/negotiations. Buyers can get 75% of our commission, if they do as follows:

• Must buy a home that is $200,000 or more
• Buyer will search for their own house
• Buyer is limited to two(2) home tours(same as showing 2 houses)
• Rebate will be credited on the HUD-1 at closing
• If the buyer needs additional showings or service, they will roll over to the next Buyer Package

Furthermore, I will be the first to tell you that you have to do your part! If you want to receive a rebate, you have to do some work to earn it. However, the work we are asking you to do, you are already doing it because you have access to real estate data via the internet! So, why not get compensated for your efforts?

To see the remaining Buyer Packages, visit our website at www.ibuyrealty.com to furthermore understand how we can put money back in your pockets when you use an iBuy Agent! Or, call 1.888.870.iBuy(4289) to speak with one of our Agents TODAY!!

Want to buy a house in 2013? Three(3) simple TIPS to MAKE IT HAPPEN!

by Bobby Bryant

In spite of popular belief, buying a house in today’s real estate market is NOT a difficult task. Post the real estate melt down, consumers could have money and bad credit or good credit and no money, and still qualify for a mortgage. NOT TODAY!! Today, you MUST be prepared to buy a house. Unlike the mortgage industry of yesterday, you can’t just “flare-up” and decide to buy a house on the spot and actually get it. Today, you have to PLAN for it!

Do you want to buy a house in 2013? If so, congratulations!! I’m going to give you three(3) solid and simple tips about what to start doing today. This “priceless” blog will list and describe exactly what you should be doing right now to easily qualify “in-advance” for a mortgage. The three(3) TIPS are as follows:

TIP #1: Consult A Mortgage Professional TODAY!
Normally, people will tell you to go pull your credit at FreeCreditReport.com. However, you want to sit down with a reputable Mortgage Planner(Loan Officer) that will pull your credit and coach you on what you need to be doing to get prepared and easily approved for a mortgage.
Tell the Mortgage Planner(Loan Officer) your goals, timeframe, budget, etc… This will help them, help you stay on task with what needs to be done per your goals.

TIP#2: Start Saving!
Start saving TODAY! Banks these days want to see that you have some skin in the game. There are ONLY a few loan products out there that will lend 100% LTV(Loan To Value). Those loans are VA(For Veterans) and USDA(For Rural Areas) Loans. However, most consumers are using FHA(Federal Housing Administration) as their loan of choice if they don’t qualify for the 100% loans I just mentioned.

An FHA Loan requires a buyer to put down 3.5%. The lender wants to see this money come from you. However, they will allow the seller of the house to pay your closing cost up to 6%. So, if you are buying a $100,000 house, the lender will require you to put down $3,500. Now, be sure to ask your Mortgage Planner(Loan Officer) how much reserves you should have in the bank in addition to this down payment. The bank wants to see that you will have some money left after putting this money down. START SAVING TODAY!!

TIP#3: Create A Comprehensive List of Needs & Wants!
The days of splurging are over! Millions of people lost their homes because of greed and taking on more than they were able to afford. BUT NOT YOU!! You are going to buy what you need and want to be comfortable. Do you need a 4,000 square foot house when it’s just you? Do you need a $500,000 home when you are barely at home? Do you want to be close to work? Do you want to be close to your kids school? What’s important to you?

I’m starting to see more buyers these days that are purchasing functional and usable space that they know they are going to use. Today’s buyers are more responsible than they were in the past. I recommend you do the same. With that said, be sure to share with your Loan Officer and Realtor the goals you have for yourself/your family. Loan Officers and Realtors do this every day and every month. The average buyer does this every 5 to 8 years. A reputable Loan Officer and Realtor will guide you in the right direction by making sure you stay on task and effectively accomplish all of your goals.

For an experienced Realtor, contact iBuy Realty at 1.888.870.4289 and/or visit our website @ www.ibuyrealty.com to see how iBuy Realty can help lower your closing cost. You are going to love our service and the savings! Congratulations on your decision to become a homeowner…

Real Estate: Sellers, what does your For Sale By Owner sign say about you and your house?

by Bobby Bryant

Before reading this blog, click this link: http://youtu.be/uh6VpkPKIpU

I’m sure you have seen them in Home Depot, Lowes, or in the front of someone’s yard. The red and white sign that says: For Sale By Owner. The sign even gives its purchaser a small space to write their phone number down so potential buyers can call to inquire about the property. However, I often wonder if these sellers really know what this sign says about them and the house they are selling…

For Sale By Owner (FSBO) Statistics

FSBOs accounted for 10% of home sales in 2011. The typical FSBO home sold for $150,000 compared to $215,000 for agent-assisted home sales.

FSBO Methods Used to Market Home:

• Yard sign . . . . . . . . . . 44%
• Listing on Internet . . . 33%
• Friends/neighbors . . . .27%
• Open house . . . . . . . .19%
• Newspaper ad . . . . . 17%
• For-sale-by-owner Web site . .12%

Most Difficult Tasks for FSBO Sellers:

• Getting the right price . . . 12%
• Understanding and performing paperwork: 11%
• Having enough time to devote to all aspects of the sale: 6%
• Preparing/fixing up home for sale: 5%
• Selling within the planned length of time: 5%

Source: 2011 National Association of REALTORS® Profile of Home Buyers and Sellers

What does all these statistics mean? To some degree, absolutely NOTHING! However, there is a perception. I’ve typically heard anywhere from 15-25% of FSBOs successfully sell their home on their own. To me, the larger issue isn’t whether or not they CAN sell their home on their own, but whether or not it’s worth their while.

If a FSBO sells their home on their own, but an agent could have sold it faster, for more money, and made the process safer and easier for the seller, what was truly gained by handling this yourself?
Typically, buyers that are shopping in the FSBO market tend to be looking for one thing: A DEAL! A buyer, who wants to find the right home for them and wants to take advantage of the full inventory available in the market, will generally hire a professional to help with this search.

Given this fact, being that most buyers have a Realtor, there is a negative perception about working with the owner of a FSBO property. If listed with another Realtor/Brokerage, there are certain ethical creeds that we all must obey and follow to give everyone involved added protection against fraud or any misrepresentations. The local Broker gives their Realtors rules/standards, the local Association, State Association, and National Real Estate Association all have ethical standards govern how Realtors conduct business. All of that goes out of the door if the other side(FSBO) is not a licensed REALTOR.

So, what does all of this mean? Hire a Realtor! Can you sell your own house? Of course!! But, at the end of the day is it worth the time, energy, and headache. Statistically, it takes longer to sell your own house due to the limited exposure and negative perceptions of a FSBO’s. If your mortgage payment is $2,000 a month and you are trying to save money, does it mathematically make sense if it’s going to take you longer to sell your own property? Average MLS listed home in Houston right now is selling in 5.3 months. There isn’t a governing body that accurately and statistically documents the data for FSBO’s but I’m sure a unanimous majority would agree that the few successful FSBO’s sold each year in the United States took much longer.

I conclude this blog with another article about Colby Sambrotto, the Founder of ForSaleByOwner.com who decided to hire a Realtor to sell his condo instead of using the company he founded. Click this link: http://moneyland.time.com/2011/08/17/fsbo-com-founder-sells-condo-%E2%80%94-using-real-estate-agent/

CALL iBuy Realty to discuss your options to get optimal exposure and get your house SOLD. We offer four(4) Seller Package to preserve your hard earned equity depending on your individual needs. Vist our website at www.ibuyrealty.com or call us TODAY @ 1.888.870.iBuy(4289).

You are going to love our service and the savings! Rethink. Real Estate.